Author & Teacher
Thirteen years ago, I had sex with an old friend. We went out, as usual, chasing girls. We were each other’s wingmen. We went to a lesbian bar this time. He was a hit. He always found the one straight woman to talk to. / I’d dated boys in high school and men in college. I’d had plenty of sex with men. I liked it. But at 23, I fell in love with a woman and I thought that changed everything. I thought I was empowered. I would have even used that word — empowered — which I’d learned in college, in women’s studies classes. Today the word is woke. I thought it applied to me because I’d rejected convention. I was a lesbian. (READ MORE BY CLICKING ANYWHERE)